even with the filter off or with it on and people using ****, you don't see it all that often unlike some other sites, most of the active members on this site are smart enough and respectful enough to watch what they type. For a couple weeks after the meet I seen some new members that seemed to be getting under everybody's skin and now there gone. Anyway the point I'm trying to make is this site is pretty clean not squaky or hospital clean but pretty good (whether you mods are on the ball constantly or just a decent group of people) and the language thing shouldn't become a big deal.