so after a lot of searching this is what I've came up with for my build.

oil pan - Canton oil pan for 4x4 conversion. have to get the pickup tube to match, jegs and summit have the oil filter relocation kit, might use the stock one a drill and tap it for the fittings, seen someone did this in another build. I was going to get the mildon, but too much bullshit to get besides the pan.
wiring- CP wire kit
engine mounts - CP wire
exhaust manifolds : either shorty headers, amazon headers or the sanderson CSLS1584x4 headers, seems some might be close to the steering shaft is my only problem