98hd, Sorry for the pain bro! I should have told you to measure the tabs first before pulling them. Sometimes it's hard to judge by a picture but we gotta try. If you haven't installed the mounts you might want to try taking them to an auto parts store and comparing them to the factory mounts. There's just something that doesn't look right with the poly mounts and I can't pinpoint it.
Here's some more pics, hope they help. Now we can compare a little better.
That's it! The difference I see is that your tabs are slanted sideways and mine are sitting vertical. That will push your tab centers more towards the middle of the crossmember 1/8" to 1/4" on each side. Does it look that way to anyone else? If you looka at your first picture under mine you can see the tab isn't sitting parallel with the motor mount casing.
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